"give me some attitude!!!"
i have a little problem with people who struggle with confidence.
i mean, i have my moments of self criticism and self doubt. i dwell on it for a minute, and think of the great things i have accomplished as well, then that makes me feel better and help me exude a bit more confidence.
sometimes that's all it takes. CONFIDENCE in yourself, otherwise no one will.
i also have a little bit of difficulty when people i try to encourage doesnt believe in what i'm saying or have a little bit of doubt in what i know, they would wait to hear it from someone else first before validating or acknowledging the thoughts i've shared is for real... really hate that!
a friend once said to me... she scares me sometimes, she's even has an attitude when she walks..."
i thought that was funny. that's when i realised how people see me. not that it really matters as a personal satisfaction on what people think of me, but it does help to gain that self confidence, to gain respect in the business world, to assess what sort of person i really am.
and in parting thoughts... sometime we got to think like one of those ricki lake audience like:
GIRL, YOU BETTER TALK TO THE HAND.. COS THE FACE DOES NOT UNDERSTAND! with the full on body and hand gestures...
or one from my sister:
BRING IT ON! I GOT A CAN OF WOOP ASS RIGHT HERE WITH YOUR NAME ON IT!
how do you project yourself?
how do people see you?
do people see the "real" you?