YOUR THOUGHTS
06 February 2012: fidelity
observations for today
this is my fave song at the moment -
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love her album!
I never loved nobody fully
Always one foot on the ground
And by protecting my heart truly
I got lost in the sounds
I hear in my mind All these voices
I hear in my mind all these words
I hear in my mind all this music
And it breaks my heart
And it breaks my heart
And it breaks my heart
It breaks my heart
And suppose I never ever met you
Suppose we never fell in love
Suppose I never ever let you kiss me
so sweet and so soft
Suppose I never ever saw you
Suppose we never ever called
Suppose I kept on singing love
songs just to break my own fall
Just to break my fall
All my friends say that of course
its gonna get better
Gonna get better Better
better better better Better
better better
to ponder onanywho, i remember one of my conversations with DMAN - we talked about men's position in this society.
i blame the baby boomers really - for being such a shitty role model - and leaving our generation now with lots of emotional baggage.
i was telling DMAN before that i think love, life or something like Life Coaching should be inforced in the educational system - so when people get to the age of procreating and settling they don't go thru such trauma's or headfucks.
i propose that in year 11 - students must learn what is unconditional love.
in year 12 - have their first real love.
uni years - learn to fuck around to get it out of their system.
so when they finally work, they're out to find a mate to settle with - no more if's or but's and issues of missing out on exciting stuff - therefore lessens the headfucks.
these days, i really do feel that people my age are lost.
men in particular - DMAN and I concluded it's because there's no male role model these days on how a man should be, especially now that women can have the same power as much a man.
at the end of the day, i am one of them.
i rebelled against everything normal.
and now, i've come full circle and guess what.. i want the traditional old fashioned values.
i want to be wooed, i want to be cooed... i want a long happy relationship.. i want respectful children. i want a partner who can take care of me, if i decide to be a full time mother.
but at the same time, i want a man who understands that i too can take care of myself and family with or without him.
*sigh*
why does my generation have to be this fucked up?
Hi bekang!
I don't think you can add a new curriculum to the system that easy.
Don't you remember highschool? Some kids are still too immature and too selfinvolved with there own shit. I think its the time for kids to findout who they are and what they want to do with there career path, and how they fit in society as an individual.
What happens then if they don't find there first love in yr12? Are there peers going to make fun of them? Would the kids feel preasured about finding real love in yr12? If they are under preasure about your timeline would they make the wrong decision who to love? Would they feel like a failure if they can't meet your timeline. Remember teenagers are faced with many changes and challenges within themselves. Don't you think your adding extra weight on there shoulders?
I do not believe that once you reach a certain grade in school you must learn what real love is!
I feel that it's the parents and familys responsibility to guide their children to be a better person (man or woman). By teaching kids proper manners, curtosy and giving them responsibilities and most importantly parents sharing and showing there love and respect towards one another. Hopefully they can adopt these basic life skills. Then once they grow up and find someone they will be brave enough to stand by the person they love and respect unconditionally!
You're right in some points too... Parents are getting lazier and stoooopid!
- posted by anonymous